When life is full of ups and downs...
Yes, I've learnt another lesson today. Life lesson I must say. Not experienced by me, but by my close friend in hall. And with other examples and thoughts by my fellow flaggers...
Seriously, what's life without friends?
Is a boyfriend necessary?
But a horrible boyfriend?
After seeing much from them, I really wonder if that kind of pain is worth going through? And whether we should think so much? Human feelings are such that it just can't be swiped off the shoulder so easily. And when someone gets hurt, the pain and sorrow stays.
But what others are looking at is just a momentarily time of fun and companion. Why think so much??
Life goes on... when one gets hurt and another thinks about him/herself.
And it's not the first time, it's over and over again. But still, the girl can't give up.
And the guy just goes on causing emotional stress and no sign of understanding.
And the girl's friends just hates this guy for the emotional rollercoaster ride he takes the girl on.
Friends, please be careful. No matter what other guys think like "why think so much? Have fun!", they are the ones having fun. Not you! Your emotions won't take it so easily. And when it sinks further, life isn't going to be good for a while after that...
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After an early end of choir practice, I was back in hall at 945pm! the earliest since eons ago! And I thought I would just end up in my room, mugging and clearing work. But I found myself in Weewen's room chatting. And then Ethel and Amelia came by. We started on the topic of the financial crisis that's going on now. And I'm glad for the accountant friend who keeps his mind on these issues. (Saved me the trouble of reading the papers and articles!) And we went through some pressing life issues that we may face.
1030pm, I went back to my room, got ready to shower, but a friend was going through an emotional rollercoaster ride...So, it was another hr with her. I must say that the things that she is undergoing is educational. And true, what my AIS lecturer said, "Learn from mistakes. But don't commit them to learn. Learn from other people's mistakes. They are free."
So, it was a night of understanding boys and army.
And more when I met up with Kelvin, Zhu, Ww, Jel, Henry and Kenny for supper at Sheares. (The usual 1am Flag supper gathering at Sheares every Thurs.) More news and sharings. and it continued as we sat at the lobby.
Thoughts that never went through the mind.
Thoughts that you never thought your own friends would be experiencing...
Thoughts.
Thoughts.
And more Thoughts.
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~PiNkDeLiGhTs~ And I thought for once I could sleep early...
DND later : ) Theme for my table this year is Rugrats. I wonder how it'd turn out...
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